Things have not moved since last here. D now not wanting to visit adult services or doctors as says they can't help, only she can do it. We are in UK. Blood tests etc were being done regularly-due again now so if she doesnt go then they may make a decision for hospital admission.This has been tried already but they decided she better at home. She needs so much more help and though i am trying so hard to get her to eat more but she won't /can't do it. Why is it that she has a mental illness but she has a choice as to whether she gets help or not?? Her BMI is low so she cannot make these decisions properly but she is an adult so has the choice and i can only stand and watch her suffer.
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